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		<title>Don&#8217;t Try And Label Me: A Rant On Political Assumptions Amidst Increasingly Polarized Parties</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2012 15:15:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Trevor Dickerson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let me start off by saying that I think I&#8217;m a pretty charitable person. I participate in or fundraise for no less than probably ten different organizations from across the political spectrum (and those that have no political affiliation at all). I do it because I wholeheartedly feel that we&#8217;re all in this thing together&#8211;life, [...]]]></description>
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<fb:like href="http://www.trevordickerson.com/2012/03/27/dont-try-and-label-me-a-rant-on-political-assumptions-amidst-increasingly-polarized-parties/" send="true" layout="standard" show_faces="false" width="450" action="like" font="arial" colorscheme="light" ref="AL2FB"></fb:like></div><p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://www.trevordickerson.com/2012/03/27/dont-try-and-label-me-a-rant-on-political-assumptions-amidst-increasingly-polarized-parties/don-t-label-me-woman-tee_design/" rel="attachment wp-att-1036"><img class=" wp-image-1036 alignleft" src="http://www.trevordickerson.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/don-t-label-me-woman-tee_design-300x300.png" alt="" width="200" height="200" /></a>Let me start off by saying that I think I&#8217;m a pretty charitable person. I participate in or fundraise for no less than probably ten different organizations from across the political spectrum (and those that have no political affiliation at all). I do it because I wholeheartedly feel that we&#8217;re all in this thing together&#8211;life, that is&#8211;and that we should all do our best to give back to those in need and lend a hand to those that need it when we&#8217;re able. I love finding opportunities to help those who are less fortunate or raise money for a worthy cause I believe in.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Lately though, a couple of things I&#8217;ve participated in have resulted in more than just a few questions (a couple of them may be better filed under &#8220;interrogation&#8221;) from those that I know. I&#8217;ve heard things like &#8220;I&#8217;m surprised to see you at [event], I thought you&#8217;re a Republican,&#8221; or &#8220;I can&#8217;t believe you&#8217;re going to [presidential candidate]&#8216;s breakfast, do you really support him?&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">First off, I really don&#8217;t share my political or religious views that often. Especially online, over social media, etcetera. I have my views and to me they&#8217;re both a private matter and not something that I feel like I should have to debate with anyone. I do from time, but I just don&#8217;t feel like any good has ever come out of a conversation like that. Part of that might be because I&#8217;m someone that generally avoids conflict like the plague, but it&#8217;s also because such conversations end up being so polarizing.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I have friends that I can have a mutually respectful conversation about things of this nature with, but by and large I feel like it ends up being a death match. A lot of times when I&#8217;ve been in the midst of a discussion like this, the other person will end up arguing until they&#8217;re blue in the face, out of breath, or have gotten angry enough that they seem worried they&#8217;re causing irreparable harm to our friendship.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It seems as though nowadays some people have to have to tell everyone else why their opinion is wrong and their own is unquestionably right. This may come as news to some people, but an opinion can&#8217;t be either right or wrong. It&#8217;s an opinion. But I&#8217;m getting slightly off topic.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Having run a news website for the past eight years, I&#8217;ve tried to be completely unbiased in my reporting and have covered and written about things that go against my own views even. But it&#8217;s that very attempt that&#8217;s gotten me the most critical comments at times. The one thing I&#8217;ve noticed the most is that the people who claim to be the most tolerant are often times only that way until you show that you&#8217;re against their views, and then end up being sometimes the most intolerant. And that has nothing to do with party affiliation, I&#8217;ve seen it from both sides.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">All this being said, if you must know, I consider myself independent. There. I have a variety of views across the board on a myriad of issues (both social and fiscal) and don&#8217;t completely line up with the views of either party enough to consider myself on one side of the fence or the other. Now I know there&#8217;s nothing in the middle of the road but yellow stripes and dead armadillos (also a book title), but I vehemently oppose certain things going on in both the Republican and Democratic parties.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Here&#8217;s how I can best sum up how I feel: I think the Republicans should get out of our bedrooms and the Democrats should get out of our wallets, and I believe in the ideals of our Constitution and our Founding Fathers&#8217; vision for our great nation, which I feel we&#8217;re straying from more and more. I&#8217;d say I respect the ideologies and political thinking of Thomas Jefferson more than anyone else. And there you have it. Oh and I&#8217;m a Christian who believes that God is love, and love conquers all. There. Any further questions? Now back to your regularly scheduled, vitrol-infused, heated Facebook comment threads, already in progress.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">But seriously, I think we all (I&#8217;m not excluded from this, either) need to think twice before both assuming the political affiliations of those around us, as well as be a little more respectful of viewpoints that differ from our own. Because like I said in the beginning, we&#8217;re all in this together (<a href="http://rd.io/x/QVptujdiREo">cue the slightly cheesy Ben Lee song</a> from that TV commercial) and plus, how boring would the world be if we all had the same opinions on the issues? I doubt it&#8217;d be as utopian as you might think.</p>
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		<title>The Occasional Big Implications of Seemingly Insignificant Decisions: Life&#8217;s Funny</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Mar 2012 21:39:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Trevor Dickerson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Life sure is funny sometimes. It almost makes you wonder if God himself has a sense of humor. When you look back on certain things, you realize it&#8217;s sometimes the smallest of decisions that end up taking you down certain paths. And it sure makes for a great story. I want to share one of [...]]]></description>
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<fb:like href="http://www.trevordickerson.com/2012/03/03/the-occasional-big-implications-of-seemingly-insignificant-decisions-lifes-funny/" send="true" layout="standard" show_faces="false" width="450" action="like" font="arial" colorscheme="light" ref="AL2FB"></fb:like></div><p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://www.trevordickerson.com/2012/03/03/the-occasional-big-implications-of-seemingly-insignificant-decisions-lifes-funny/lifeswhathappens-4/" rel="attachment wp-att-1016"><img class="size-full wp-image-1016 alignright" src="http://www.trevordickerson.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/lifeswhathappens.png" alt="" width="251" height="251" /></a>Life sure is funny sometimes. It almost makes you wonder if God himself has a sense of humor. When you look back on certain things, you realize it&#8217;s sometimes the smallest of decisions that end up taking you down certain paths. And it sure makes for a great story. I want to share one of those with you today.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It was mid September of 2009. I had just quit my job at a local computer company, where I managed a help desk at the University of Richmond and traveled around the state installing and servicing computers and printers for mainly educational clients to spend more time growing my web design and branding business and my news site, Downtown Short Pump. While working out of my favorite local coffee shop, I saw a tweet from a woman I&#8217;d never met before, desperately asking for help with her computer from someone nearby. Being that I was next door and had done this for a living, I decided to pop in to this woman&#8217;s store, By Invitation Only. It was there that I met Monica Horsley.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I spent an hour or so attempting to resolve Monica&#8217;s computer issues that day. Well it turns out there was more than one issue that needed taking care of. The next day, Monica asked me to come back and take a look at a few other things. The third day, she invited me out for drinks with her and the rest of the staff after work. We all really got along. She invited me back to do a few more things the next day.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Before I knew it, I got my first paycheck. I was officially working at a invitation and stationery store. I began helping with the graphic design and printing of everything from childrens&#8217; birthday parties and graduations to rehearsal dinners and weddings. I even familiarized myself with the more than eighty vendor invitation books we had and began helping customers select wedding and other invitations when they came in the store.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Once the former manager quit and a couple others left for one reason or another, it was pretty much just Monica and I holding down the fort for a few months. I was doing so many things that, though I didn&#8217;t, I felt like I owned a part of the store. I had that kind of dedication to its continued success.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I stayed for just over two years at a job I was never really hired for&#8211; I just never left! But two weeks ago, I put in my resignation after accepting my new job at Loving Consulting. My last day was February 29, 2012.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It was a fun ride. Getting to work in a fast-paced retail environment with a clientele that expected nothing less than perfection definitely sharpened my skills physically, mentally, and socially. I was kept on my toes at all times. It had its ups and downs, but overall, I&#8217;m thankful for the experiences that helped mold and shape me that I otherwise wouldn&#8217;t have had if I had stayed at the coffee shop that day in 2009.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">A lot of the people I met through Monica (one of the most connected people I&#8217;ve ever met) helped me to accomplish a lot for my business and connect the dots between myself and those that they knew to do the same.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://www.trevordickerson.com/2012/03/03/the-occasional-big-implications-of-seemingly-insignificant-decisions-lifes-funny/stayorgo/" rel="attachment wp-att-1004"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1004" title="stayorgo" src="http://www.trevordickerson.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/stayorgo-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>If you asked me two years ago if I&#8217;d ever either work in or get to know anything about the bridal industry, I would have looked at you and laughed. But I now know it inside and out, and I&#8217;m better off for it. And I never thought I&#8217;d be sitting here typing that.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">What I&#8217;ve learned is that little, seemingly insignificant decisions can end up making the most impact in your life. If I had continued to sit in that coffee shop and not respond to that tweet asking for help, what path would I have taken? I have a feeling I wouldn&#8217;t have expanded my horizons the way I have or even ultimately made the decision to sell my website (and accept a position doing something I love while still getting to run my website), which ended up being one of the best decisions I&#8217;ve ever made.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It makes me wonder how many other small decisions I&#8217;ve made, even subconscious ones, that have lead me to where I am now. I guess John Lennon was right. Life&#8217;s what happens while you&#8217;re busy making other plans.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">So, as I said once before, life sure is funny.</p>
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		<title>A New Year, A New Direction, A New Company</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 18:08:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Trevor Dickerson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[2011 was a great year. I met so many new people, had a lot of great new experiences and continued to grow my business. I took on some major new clients under RVA MediaWorks and had a record year on Downtown Short Pump. These are all great things, because all healthy things grow. And as [...]]]></description>
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<fb:like href="http://www.trevordickerson.com/2012/01/04/a-new-year-a-new-direction-a-new-company/" send="true" layout="standard" show_faces="false" width="450" action="like" font="arial" colorscheme="light" ref="AL2FB"></fb:like></div><p style="text-align: justify;">2011 was a great year. I met so many new people, had a lot of great new experiences and continued to grow my business. I took on some major new clients under RVA MediaWorks and had a record year on Downtown Short Pump. These are all great things, because all healthy things grow. And as we flip the calendar to 2012, it&#8217;s time to take the next step in that growth.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://www.trevordickerson.com/2012/01/04/a-new-year-a-new-direction-a-new-company/shortpumpgrocery/" rel="attachment wp-att-962"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-962" title="" src="http://www.trevordickerson.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/shortpumpgrocery.jpeg" alt="" width="256" height="192" /></a>I started Downtown Short Pump back in high school after visiting the website on the Downtown Short Pump sign in front of Regal Cinemas and Barnes and Noble. The name of the shopping complex was not new, but perhaps ironic. Borrowed from the old Henley Store, a two story general store at the corner of Broad and Three Chopt, the Downtown Short Pump sign adorning the front of the building was the butt of all jokes back when Short Pump was a rural outpost.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Today, the name is pretty fitting of the bustling suburban &#8220;edge city&#8221; that Short Pump has become. The Downtown Short Pump shopping complex had the domain name &#8220;www.downtownshortpump.com&#8221; etched into the stone of their sign, to promote the new center. By chance, I visited it one day in 2004 and noticed it had expired. I grabbed it for $8.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I then started posting happenings in the community, news I had heard or things I saw. Little did I know that this little one-pager would turn into a full-fledged website that welcomed just under 325,000 visitors in 2011&#8211; a fact of which I am very proud, but also very humbled by.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I can&#8217;t even begin to list all of the opportunities I&#8217;ve had and the people I&#8217;ve met all around Richmond through the growth of Downtown Short Pump. It&#8217;s been an amazing journey. And as of today, I announce my plan to take everything to the next level.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I&#8217;ve sold Downtown Short Pump to James Loving of <a href="http://www.lovingconsulting.com">Loving Consulting</a> (who I&#8217;ve worked with very extensively in the past through the company&#8217;s highly successful Far West End networking group <a href="http://www.thelovingcollective.com/">The Loving Collective</a>), with whom I&#8217;ve taken a job as Director of New Media and Image Consultant. I&#8217;ll remain Editor &amp; Publisher of Downtown Short Pump under the company&#8217;s new online media division, Break Point Media Group. Working for the company that acquired DTSP will allow me to continue to do what I love and hopefully expand this vision around Richmond, beginning with our sister site, <a href="http://www.midlothianrva.com">Midlothian RVA</a>, which will be launching soon.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I&#8217;ll also be helping with web design, copywriting, social media, and graphic design campaigns, plus contributing to other branding strategies for Loving Consulting&#8217;s clients.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I&#8217;m incredibly excited about what 2012 will bring, and I thank everyone who&#8217;s supported me and my business as a whole over the years. I&#8217;m not going anywhere, just changing roles, and I look forward to working with you and your businesses as I expand upon what I&#8217;ve built with Downtown Short Pump into other areas&#8211; both role-wise and geographically!</p>
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		<title>Black Friday 2011: Midnight Chaos Edition</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Nov 2011 22:21:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve always hated shopping. Absolutely loathe it. I still have nightmares about being dragged through the JCPenney as a small child all Saturday at Regency Square. The few times I&#8217;ve been out doing it for more than a couple hours (which has usually been as the mercy of a bargain-hungry female companion), I&#8217;ve practically been [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">I&#8217;ve always hated shopping. Absolutely loathe it. I still have nightmares about being dragged through the JCPenney as a small child all Saturday at Regency Square. The few times I&#8217;ve been out doing it for more than a couple hours (which has usually been as the mercy of a bargain-hungry female companion), I&#8217;ve practically been able to feel my soul slowly departing my increasingly lifeless body. Jokes aside though, the one day I set this all aside has always been Black Friday. Something about that day has always made me set those feelings aside.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Whether it&#8217;s the adrenaline of fighting the crowds for merchandise or just being in the midst of chaos and enjoying some five-star people watching, I can&#8217;t be sure. But I&#8217;ve always been all about it, albeit just a day out of the year.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">For years, the concept has been simple: Get to bed early and wake up around 3:00 or 4:00 a.m. and drive around Short Pump, snap some photos for my website and buy some stuff that I probably would have anyway and get a deep discount on it. Perfect.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">But, alas, this year all of the big box retailers apparently had a secret roundtable meeting in which they decided that they were going to opening at midnight (and of course Walmart, in its typical &#8220;let&#8217;s one-up them all&#8221; style, decided to open at 10:00 p.m. Thanksgiving night). Workers required to leave family celebrations early in some cases (over 200,000 Target employees <a href="http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-500202_162-57329361/target-defends-black-friday-hours-amid-protest/">signed a petition</a> against the early opening), which I can&#8217;t say I agree with.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Still, I decided to take my sister out for our annual tradition, at midnight. You know, because <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">I love fighting crowds before the tryptophan has had time to wear off</span> my sister asked me to take her.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">So we rolled out of the house at 10:30 p.m. for what my sister claimed was an 11:00 p.m. opening of Urban Outfitters, the slightly out-of-place hipster retailer that happens to be in the heart of Prepville USA, beautiful Downtown Short Pump.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">We were some of the first in line because, well, the store opened at midnight, not 11:00. So once I swallowed this wonderful news, we enjoyed the picturesque scene of two 12-year-olds smoking in front of us in line and another kid that wasn&#8217;t much older brown bagging it. Classy.</p>
<div id="attachment_945" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.trevordickerson.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/IMG_1312.jpg" rel="lightbox[938]"><img class="size-medium wp-image-945" title="IMG_1312" src="http://www.trevordickerson.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/IMG_1312-300x224.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="224" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Line at Short Pump Town Center from second floor.</p></div>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Anyway, so once the doors opened, these kids practically trampled one another, so they only let a few people in at a time and cut all the lights off in the store so no one could see anything. The logic of anything going on at this store was fleeting.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">So having lost my sister at this point in the sea of insane teens practically killing one another over cheap clothes, I opted to hang out outside the store by the fire pit and think warm thoughts until she came out an hour later&#8230; literally.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Next it was on to Target, where the line of people had wrapped around the building an hour earlier, and adjacent Best Buy, which almost circled the building a time and a half. What these people were lined up for is beyond me, considering there was no hot item or toy this year to speak of. Most people coming out had TVs if I could find any one theme or pattern.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Once we actually got into Target (the outrageous line was gone at this point), it was worthless to even buy anything that was on sale, considering the checkout line weaved through about 15-20 aisles in the front of the store. Nothing was worth waiting in that.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">So I guess to conclude, and to put all sarcasm aside, I was skeptical as to whether people would actually come out in droves at midnight as opposed to 3:00 or 4:00 a.m. like usual, but boy did they. In much bigger numbers, too. I guess will be the new normal. Heck in a couple years stores will be open 10:00 a.m. Thanksgiving Day, right?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The upside was that the following day, while the mall itself was pretty packed, Short Pump as a whole didn&#8217;t look much more busy than a typical Saturday around the holidays. Midnight shopping took care of the daytime crowds and effectively killed the typical gridlock of Black Friday morning.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Fortunately, I didn&#8217;t see anything like the crazy people at a Walmart that <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gkywyGoQ2yU">rioted over $2 waffle makers</a>, but hey, my photo of the line at Urban Outfitters <a href="http://mashable.com/2011/11/25/twitter-black-friday-pics/">made it onto Mashable</a>, which was pretty cool. Only thing I saw was a fight over a parking spot at the Short Pump Target. Three police cars showed up. It amazes me how people turn into animals over something so silly.</p>
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		<title>What A Homeless Woman Taught Me About Life This Thanksgiving Season</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Nov 2011 21:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Trevor Dickerson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I had the opportunity to take part in a great event put on by Homeward on Thursday. Project Homeless connect is an annual event put on by the organization where those who are homeless or at risk of being so are invited to the Greater Richmond Convention Center to get assistance, support and services. I arrived [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">I had the opportunity to take part in a great event put on by <a href="http://www.homewardva.org/">Homeward</a> on Thursday. Project Homeless connect is an annual event put on by the organization where those who are homeless or at risk of being so are invited to the Greater Richmond Convention Center to get assistance, support and services.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I arrived early in the morning with several hundred other volunteers and received training on the process. Here&#8217;s how it worked: We all lined up inside the exhibition hall as the recipients we were about to meet lined up in the hallway. They were then let in and we were matched with a client at the entranceway.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">We then sat down with them at a table, got to know a little about them and their background, and went through a checklist-style worksheet that allowed us to identify the services they most needed during their visit.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Clients could visit a doctor, optometrist, dentist (not to mention get on-site dental work), learn more about housing opportunities, apply for Social Security benefits, get information on employment and educational programs, receive clothing, enjoy a hot meal and much more at different stations set up around the exhibition hall.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">We were told that some clients would come in briefly and do as little as just eat lunch, while others would make a day of it taking advantage of all services offered. I got a variety of both over the course of the day as I worked with three different clients.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">This was more than just a run-of-the-mill volunteer opportunity where we were there to perform a task. We spent as little or as long as was necessary with each person, guiding them through the stations they wished to visit and staying with them the entire time.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I enjoyed getting to know all three people and learning more about what life was like from their perspectives. But my second client was the one that left the biggest impact on me that day. We&#8217;ll call her Jane.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Jane was a woman who was small in stature but big in personality. She made a several mile trek from the Church Hill area to the Convention Center on that cold November day to get help with several things. Jane had a kind smile and gentle demeanor, but was at the same time feisty and no-nonsense. In one word, she was strong. You see, Jane has five kids and is undergoing chemo for breast cancer. And living on under just $200 a month.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">We spent a considerable amount of time together as she got the help she needed. And as we chatted over the course of three hours, I got a true sense of just what it was like to live in her day-to-day world. I&#8217;m often running short on money for this or that, when an unexpected bill comes in or what have you. But to hear how she stretches a couple hundred bucks and food stamps to make ends meet, endures the cancer treatments and tries to be the best mom she can to her five kids, I felt I could never say I was broke again. I counted my blessings.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">We continued talking and she told me a story about how her youngest son, about 10 years old, got upset last year when he found out he wouldn&#8217;t be having Christmas, at least in the sense that we think of it with presents and other things we often take for granted. He was too young to understand why. As tears began to stream down her face, she told me how she wouldn&#8217;t be able to afford to give them a Christmas again this year, and how deeply it upset her. The tears welled up in my own eyes as she described the little things she&#8217;s doing to save a dollar here and there to be able to hopefully get her kids something this Christmas.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Now granted, the issues surrounding homelessness aren&#8217;t all black and white. Rather, they&#8217;re multiple shades of gray and are  comprised of both preventable and non-preventable factors, depending on the situation. I don&#8217;t fully know how Jane (or the other two people I worked with that day) wound up in her current situation. Whether it was her own fault or out of her hands completely, I&#8217;ll never know. Nor is it any of my business.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">What I do know is however she got to where she is, she&#8217;s doing all she can to make a better life for her kids and she&#8217;s not looking for a handout (she was employed part-time until her cancer became too debilitating). She gave me the reminder that I think we all need from time to time, that even if we&#8217;re short on money or facing tough times, we have it pretty good and need to count and recount our blessings daily.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">As we go into the Thanksgiving week, I&#8217;m thankful not only for what I have, but to have met Jane and the two others that gave me a glimpse into seemingly another world, right here in the same city as me.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">As you get together with your family and friends to share a bountiful meal this Thursday, give thanks for what you have and take a little time to not only think about those less fortunate, but to offer an outstretched hand and do something actionable to make an impact, no matter how small, in the life of someone else.</p>
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		<title>How Steve Jobs Changed the World &amp; Made Me Who I Am</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2011 04:11:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Trevor Dickerson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I remember my first Apple computer. Back in 2001, in 7th grade at Short Pump Middle School, we were first issued iBooks. The predecessors to today&#8217;s MacBooks, they took some getting used to, having been brought up on a Compaq PC running Windows 95. But something was decidedly cool about this new device. The school [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">But something was decidedly cool about this new device. The school system purchased iBooks for every middle and high school student in the county and allowed us to not only use them in the classroom, but take them home as well.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It was this first Apple computer that not only made me an Apple fan for life, but defined my interests and path thus far in life. The things that seemed so unachievable and out complicated on a PC were suddenly a breeze on a Mac.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">This barebones version of the iBook sparked my interest in all things digital and fostered my early love (and self teaching of) web development, video production and graphic design. It was on this little white iBook that I realized what I wanted to do with my life at the ripe old age of 12.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">On Tuesday, we lost the man behind the magic, arguably the greatest icon of our time and one of the greatest innovators in history, Steve Jobs.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Steve not only revolutionized the personal computing, mobile phone and music industries. He changed the world as we know it because he was that square peg in a round hole bold (and perhaps crazy) enough to question the status quo and &#8220;Think Different.&#8221;</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;"><em>“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” &#8211; Steve Jobs</em></p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">It&#8217;s encouraging to me as a small business owner, when I get discouraged, to remember Steve&#8217;s iconic leadership of Apple. Brought back to the company when it was on the brink of bankruptcy, Steve had transformed Apple into the most valuable company in the world just weeks before his passing. Just how valuable? Apple reportedly has more cash on hand than the entire United States government.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Apple will continue to grow and thrive under Tim Cook&#8217;s leadership, but there will never be another Steve Jobs.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Thank you for everything, Steve. It sounds incredible to say, but I don&#8217;t think anyone has had as profound an impact on my life and shaped me more than you, besides my parents and my faith in God.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Thank you for continually raising the bar on what to expect from consumer electronics. For telling us what we wanted before we even knew we wanted it (iPad, anyone?). And lastly, for helping me figure out who I am, discover my God-given talents, and realize my purpose in life. For that, I am eternally grateful. Rest in peace, Steve.</p>
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		<title>Operation Turtlesaurus Removal</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2011 14:10:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Trevor Dickerson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This weekend was just total insanity. Went to Alisa&#8217;s lake house in Hollywood, Maryland with Chad and Deanna and met up with others. Let me just start by saying you have not been on a road trip until you go with Chad Brown. Nor have you ever been out of town and wished you had [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Between the lake house, a sporadic trip to Arlington &amp; DC for the night, and an overdose of hilarity from the things I witnessed that could only be described as scenes from an upcoming <em>Hangover 3 </em>(for example, Scott&#8217;s phone ended up in New Jersey without him&#8230; so yeah, there&#8217;s that).</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">But out of all that happened, perhaps the highlight of the weekend was Saturday evening. A bunch of us were sitting outside on the screened porch watching a really bad thunderstorm roll through. Suddenly, Scott pokes his head outside and informs us, very nonchalantly, that &#8220;a very large live animal&#8221; is in the house.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">What happened next could only be compared to the scene in <em>Christmas Vacation</em> where the squirrel pops out of the Christmas tree&#8211; complete with all of us running up and down the stairs trying to figure out what to do.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">What was in the house? A huge, smelly snapping turtle decided to pop in when the storm blew in the French doors downstairs. What happened next can be seen in the below video.</p>
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		<title>Why I&#8217;m All For Facebook Places And What It Means For Location-Based Social Networking</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Aug 2010 20:24:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Trevor Dickerson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[About two and a half years ago, when I first signed up for this new thing I had heard about called Twitter, and long before I had ever uttered the word &#8220;social media,&#8221; I was introduced to what was probably the first location-based social network. It was called Brightkite, and only a handful of people [...]]]></description>
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<fb:like href="http://www.trevordickerson.com/2010/08/20/why-im-all-for-facebook-places-and-what-it-means-for-location-based-social-networking/" send="true" layout="standard" show_faces="false" width="450" action="like" font="arial" colorscheme="light" ref="AL2FB"></fb:like></div><p style="text-align: justify;">About two and a half years ago, when I first signed up for this new thing I had heard about called Twitter, and long before I had ever uttered the word &#8220;social media,&#8221; I was introduced to what was probably the first location-based social network. It was called Brightkite, and only a handful of people I knew were using it, probably 90% of whom I knew through Twitter.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Needless to say, Brightkite has gone the way of Bebo and Friendster, joining a growing list of startups that ended up in a &#8220;failure to launch&#8221; kind of situation.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Flash forward to late 2009, and along comes Foursquare. I got an invitation to join when the Richmond network was in some stage of beta, and next thing I know, 50 people I knew were on board. About 10 months later, my list of Foursquare friends sits at around 350, a much smaller number than my Twitter or Facebook lists, but for several reasons.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">One of those reasons is privacy. I asked myself, did I really want <em>everyone</em> knowing where I am at all times? Through built-in connection options on the Foursquare iPhone app, I&#8217;m able to selectively choose which check-ins I share with my broader social media family and which I keep to the smaller group I&#8217;m okay with knowing on Foursquare.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Just this week, Facebook announced what I see to be a complete game-changer for location-based social networking. Facebook Places, as it was dubbed, is the social media giant&#8217;s entrance into the market. With such a small number of the total population using services like Foursquare and its smaller competitor Gowalla, it would seem a safe bet that Facebook would take the concept mainstream with their base of over 500 million (and counting) users worldwide.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">In my opinion, Facebook is off to a great start with Places. It&#8217;s simple and intuitive, and seems to pull places from a database such as Google Maps, much like Brightkite did, as opposed to relying on users to create venues. But, if a place isn&#8217;t listed or has incorrect information, you can still add or edit the venue. What&#8217;s more is creating a venue makes a Facebook Page for that place.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I&#8217;ve noticed that most of the places I&#8217;ve checked into so far that have an existing Facebook Page don&#8217;t have the venue linked to it, rather Facebook creates a new, bare bones page for the venue, if that makes sense. This is kind of annoying and I would think could become frustrating for end users and business owners alike, but I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;s something that will be tweaked in the near future.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Another issue is privacy. Facebook allows you to tag friends at the venue you&#8217;re at, without their consent. With Foursquare, another person had to check themselves into a venue before they&#8217;d show up in anything you posted from Foursquare to Twitter or Facebook. While that information will only be visible to your friends by default, you can choose to share it publicly.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">In summary, I&#8217;m excited about the possibilities of Facebook Places. As more of my friends have signed up for Foursquare, it&#8217;s been cool to walk around The Fan or similar places and see a friend check in and meet up for a drink or other spur of the moment activities. Facebook is no doubt going to make location-based social media a household concept, unfortunately at the expense of the smaller startups. While there are privacy and technical issues to work out, I think this is about to spread like wildfire, and just like the advent and evolution of other social networks, I&#8217;m ready for the ride.</p>
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		<title>My Thoughts On Turning 21 &amp; Perspectives On Life Thus Far</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 14:53:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Trevor Dickerson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I was a little kid, in first or second grade, I remember thinking how enormous middle schoolers were. I thought they were practically adults at that age. Then a funny thing happened. I got to eigth grade and everyone in my grade made comments about just how little the incoming sixth graders were that [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Isn&#8217;t it funny how our perception of things changes over time? We always think we&#8217;re done growing, but don&#8217;t realize until later just how much farther we had to go until later on and we see the just how small we were, both figuratively and literally. Today, July 1, 2009, is one of those days. I turned 21. I&#8217;m just gonna sit for a second and let that sink in.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I think this day far surpasses both my eighth grade and senior year experiences, because this time, I&#8217;m not looking back on grade school. I&#8217;m measuring a turning point in my life.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">If I thought middle schoolers were big when I was eight or nine, you better believe someone who was 21 seemed like they had been on the earth forever. The older I get though, the more I realize just how quickly time passes. I know I&#8217;m still very young, but with this birthday, even though I&#8217;ve been 20 for a year, I feel more like a &#8220;twenty-something&#8221; a less of a teenager. I think my transition from being a teen to being an adult took place over this past year, and I have mixed feelings about that.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I know I spend too much time doing business-related things and doing things like networking that adults much older than myself typically participate in, but the fact is I&#8217;m passionate about the business I&#8217;ve started and making it succeed. I just don&#8217;t know sometimes if I should just focus more on being a college student and having fun and less on the type of business stuff that I&#8217;ll no doubt have the rest of my life to do. It&#8217;s a delicate balance and I&#8217;m still trying to find it.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Working for yourself from home does have its advantages, though. One day a friend called me up when I was in the middle of a website and asked if I wanted to go to the river. Not having any boss to ask but myself, I jumped in my car and headed down to Belle Isle. I guess I just wish I was more spontaneous like this more often. When you&#8217;ve already got the snowball effect of several elements of a growing business, though, it&#8217;s tough to stop it or even slow it down.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><img class="alignleft" style="border: 1px solid black; margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" src="http://www.trevordickerson.com/wordpress/images/posts/ednacomputerlesson.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="267" />I had an interesting thought the other day while talking with Edna, an 83-year-old that I&#8217;ve become good friends with up at Daily Grind. She comes in every day. She&#8217;s as spry and sharp as can be and still enjoys life to the fullest. She&#8217;s also willing to learn new things. I&#8217;m showing her how to use her laptop and check her email in the picture (credit: Bill Bangham).</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I thought she would feel as if her life had been a long journey, but was surprised to find out just how quickly she thought it had passed. I think her perspective is what gave me my new outlook on the value of time. In what she thought was a short life of 83 years of her life so far (which still feels like lightyears away to me, being that I&#8217;m in my early twenties) she&#8217;s done a lot and I can tell she feels like she&#8217;s lived a good life thus far.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I only hope that I can be the same way and have a life I can look back on at her age and smile at all I&#8217;ve done. I&#8217;m still young and have more dreams and plans than I can shake a stick it. It&#8217;s time to achieve them while still remembering to live up my youth while I&#8217;m still young. This year&#8217;s gonna be a year of finding the balance. Right now, though, it&#8217;s time to celebrate!</p>
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		<title>First RVA Social Media Club (SMCRVA) Meeting</title>
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		<dc:creator>Trevor Dickerson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I went to the first RVA Social Media Club (SMCRVA) last night at Morton&#8217;s Steakhouse downtown. I really wasn&#8217;t sure what to expect, but as soon as I walked in the door, I knew I had just entered the best business networking event in Richmond. I had the opportunity to put a lot of names [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">I&#8217;m really amazed at what&#8217;s happened to Twitter over the past year or so. Back when I first got my account, well over a year ago, it was a novelty service. No one I knew was really on it, but that was the coolest thing about it. I got to know so many interesting people in Richmond and around the world, and even had &#8220;tweetups&#8221; (Twitter terminology for &#8220;meetups&#8221;) with some of the nice folks I met on the service. Now, though, everyone is on Twitter. Businesses are beginning to realize what great benefits social media has and they&#8217;re all jumping on the bandwagon. Twitter is just one big social experiment if you ask me, opening the doors to a new way to exchange news, ideas, support and business information in under 140 characters. Richmond is becoming a lot more close-knit because of it, and that&#8217;s a really cool thing in this day in age where everyone&#8217;s always on the go.</p>
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